Less common is what we find on the gravestone of Mary Ann Clapham (b. 1823, d. 1897): Unmarried.
FEB. 2, 1823
OCT. 24, 1897
Look at the monument in the background. Yes, Miss Clapham is named there as well. Her age is written, but (thankfully?) not her marital status.
Blendon Central Cemetery, Franklin County, Ohio